PACE part 2: Curiosity and Empathy

Questions

1. Question 1 of 5Curiosity in PACE is about…

   Wondering rather than interrogatingAsking “why” until the child explainsFinding out who is to blame
2. Question 2 of 5Which is an example of “I wonder” language?

   “Why did you do that?”“Explain yourself now.”“I wonder if you felt left out when that happened.”
3. Question 3 of 5When is it best NOT to probe?

   When the child is calm and chattingDuring a big feeling, after the child has shut down, or when it would mean digging into past abuseNever: keep asking until they answer
4. Question 4 of 5Empathy means…

   Fixing the problem straight awayAgreeing the child did nothing wrongBeing alongside your child in a hard feeling, while still being able to keep a limit
5. Question 5 of 5Why can “wondering aloud” to another adult, within the child’s hearing, help?

   Some children find direct questions too intenseIt lets you tell the child off indirectlyIt means you never have to talk to the child